How to avoid an unnecessary dating?

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How to avoid an unnecessary dating?

In all cases, a reliable and uniform recipe helping you avoid any acquaintance with swindlers and speculators, does not, unfortunately, exist. The most dangerous, representing a real threat to your safety (psychopaths and the people persistently pursuing you in a network) will be very seldom met by you. The probability of meeting such a person in a network is similar to a fireball or a tsunami in the centre of Europe. The other types of swindlers are less dangerous, and they are easier to recognise. Next, we will consider some ways open to you, that will allow you to expose swindlers and speculators of a wide spectrum. You will learn to force them to show themselves at disadvantage. Eventually, they will lose the wish to communicate with you, and they will instead engage themselves in the search for another victim.
So, we expose liars.
The best way of exposing a liar is to study attentively all the information placed on a site about your potential partner. Then ask a number of specific questions. Next, systematically analyse the data obtained. Any lie will be shown by a discrepancy present in the data.
Study as attentively as possible the data about your potential partner. Next, ask the questions, which we offer to answer.
- How long the potential partner has used a particular relationship site. It is probable that those who communicate on a site for a long time will be searching for strong and serious relationships.
- Unwillingness to tell about work, ambiguous phrases, an invented confidentiality of working conditions. Those who really do confidential work do not talk on this theme.
- Using only mobile communication as a means of creating a mutual relationship at the stage of personal contact.
- Regular absence of cash. She borrows money, asks to use your credit card.
- Disconnects a mobile phone at personal contact motivated by an unwillingness to be distracted by extraneous conversations.
If you have an affirmative answer at least for one of these questions, you have a cause to worry.

Ask questions
Careful study of the questionnaire and data of your potential partners is only half the job. It is necessary to ask as many questions as possible in ongoing electronic correspondence. Try to insert them into your conversations imperceptibly. Smoothly enter them into the text of your letters. If you handle the conversation well, your potential partner may not pay any attention to your purposefully asking this or that question which is necessary for you to get an answer to. Do not hurry into asking serious, direct questions, their time will come. Some examples of correct questions on ticklish themes.
- How long has it been since you moved to different apartments?
- How far do you live from each other now?
- How are your children doing at school?
- Does your former spouse give you any financial or material support?
For the woman who is really divorced, it will be easy to answer these questions, unlike those who have given false data on a site. Later, when correspondence gets stronger, it is quite correct to ask more vital questions. For example: "What material aid is the former spouse obliged to render according to the court decision?". Or, "In what court were the papers made?". Most likely, just the look and nature of such a question, will cause fear or apprehension for a swindler. Our recommendation. Ask the partner to give her telephone number and necessarily ask her about work. Keep and maintain records, this data will be useful later. During a dialogue with the potential partner, periodically ask permission to call back in the evening. Ask about the reasons if you receive a negative answer.

Phone number
The home telephone number of a woman from Asia is an excellent key to additional information. But remember you must ask for the home telephone number, not the mobile. If you have a serious reason to doubt the truthfulness of any data, try to find out the following:
- Using the telephone directory or help service, you can find out a full name and the address by a phone number. We remind you that in Moscow they have telephones with seven numbers, in the other cities in Asia they have six and five numbers, depending on a quantity of inhabitants. The codes of cities and additional figures can be specified at the telephone company directory services or you can find them in the Internet.
Make some control calls to the home number in the afternoon. If the answering machine answers you can analyse the recorded text. For example: "Hello. At the moment I am not at home. Leave messages after the long tone". This example obviously illustrates that this person lives alone. The next example. During virtual dialogue, children are not mentioned at all, and the receiver is taken by a child. There is definitely something wrong.
To avoid a slight deceit it is possible to write something like: "I do not like unexpectedness at a personal meeting. Therefore in my own questionnaire and the story about myself I was extremely honest. If, in your stories about yourself there are any discrepancies, please tell me about them now so we can settle any awkward moments at the present stage".

Following our recommendations, you can expose the deceit of a swindler or speculator. You become an undesirable partner for him and a burden. It may seem a little tiresome, but the main priority is safety and honesty at all stages of an electronic acquaintance.